Mind the gap between dream and reality

Written by Rachael Skyring

Rachael Skyring is a Curious Woman. Committed carer. Deep thinker. Energy navigator. Stubborn AF. Bonus very late diagnosed AuDHD. With postgraduate degrees in Astrophysics and Rocket Science, she's spent the last twenty years as mostly a Montessori Mum, the last ten honing her metaphysical quantum brain surgery skills through mindful movement and embodiment practices. Whoever you want to be, and wherever you want to go next, Rachael can start you on your way. The sky's no limit. Let's begin!

4 February 2026

This week I’m acknowledging the gap between here and there.

New beginnings, Australian of the Year – Katherine Bennell-Pegg, and living a curious, wondering life when you’re not an astronaut.    How are all these things related?

“And so if this is the garbled dirty message…

The amazing thing is that I can ask AI to write a really nice, clean summary without all the noise, without all the guff, and that summary is a much cleaner signal that you can easily receive and take, and that’s good. 

And, in its compression, there’s loss because it’s in the noise that there’s some richer message”

In this heartfelt and introspective narrative set against the backdrop of a twilight beach walk, Rachael shares personal stories that delve into aspirations, achievements, and the gap between them.

The story starts with a proud parenting moment where the speaker’s youngest son is inducted as a prefect at school. The principal’s speech bringing up the Australian of the Year, Katherine Bennell-Pegg, an astronaut, triggers a reflection on personal dreams of space travel and unfulfilled aspirations. Rachael draws a parallel with their own background in science and engineering, acknowledging systemic obstacles faced by women in achieving big dreams. 

Through this lens, the message is highlighted that gaps between reality and aspiration can serve as sources of creativity, energy, and inspiration rather than voids. 

The narrative evolves to include metaphors from yoga practice and scientific concepts like signal-to-noise ratio, emphasizing the importance of tuning into positive signals like joy and delight amidst life’s noise. 

Rachael ties together these reflections with discussions on emerging stories, tuning for joy, and acknowledging the dance of creation, destruction, and transformation, inviting listeners to see the gap not as a failure but as a fertile space for growth and connection. 

This story encourages listeners to persist, to find delight in their journey, and to appreciate the evolving process of life.

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