Set yourself a slow standard

Set yourself a slow standard

by | 19 Apr 2025 | Curiosity, Embodiment, Kindness

There’s something quietly radical about not rushing. About letting your attention unfurl on its own odd timeline. Especially when it’s out of sync with expectations—those spoken and unspoken rules of how to “show up” like a good, capable adult. Maybe you’ve lived long...
There’s a unicorn in my search bar!

There’s a unicorn in my search bar!

by | 12 Apr 2025 | Curiosity, Kindness, Space

I was halfway through writing about something else—something slow and kind that I’ll share next week—when a small glimmer blinked in from the edge of my awareness. A unicorn. Literally, a unicorn had appeared in the search bar at the bottom of my screen. I hovered....
Getting out of your own way

Getting out of your own way

by | 4 Apr 2025 | Curiosity, Kindness

Let’s talk about that very particular AuDHD struggle: getting out of your own way. You know the one. The swirl of overthinking, under-motivating, semi-panicked avoidance masked as Very Important Research (or tidying the fridge. Again). That feeling where you can see...