Explaining Patriarchy to the boys

Explaining Patriarchy to the boys

Recently I read three related Feminist Substack essays, which inspired me to try to explain something about Patriarchy to the men, young and old, closest to me in my own life. What I discovered in explaining how this problematic system affected others was that I...
Your No is welcome and invited

Your No is welcome and invited

We talk a lot about saying yes—embracing opportunity, leaning in, going for it. But what about no? No has its own kind of power. It creates space, defines boundaries, and shapes what remains. Some no’s feel like relief, an easy exhale as something heavy drops away....