There’s a moment in Wakanda Forever that caught me off guard.
(Apologies if this movie offends your sensibilities—I understand. And yet, stay with me.)
It happens in a basement. A young woman, Riri Williams, unveils a rough prototype of her Ironheart suit. It’s made from spare parts. It clanks. It looks… impossible. And yet—it works. This magnificent, improbable suit of armour is real. It’s her own invention, created in stolen hours with limited tools, in a space no one was really meant to see.
The moment is astonishing.
She’s built something extraordinary—not just technologically, but symbolically: armour to protect a tender heart. She seems almost detached from it. Others are more excited than she is. And I thought: Oh. Perhaps my story does go here.
Because here’s the truth I don’t love to admit:
I’ve spent a lifetime secretly hoping someone would find me in my version of that basement.
I’ve imagined being discovered mid-project, mid-mess, by someone who could see the genius in what I’d been patching together all along. I wanted to be recognised. Chosen. Plucked from obscurity with a cry of: “You made this? This is incredible.”
I wanted to have made something that made people stop in their tracks.
That seemed impossible. That felt like a miracle.
And then—slowly, embarrassingly—I began to realise:
I have made something like that.
And so have you.
Not a tech suit, sure. Not a Marvel script.
But something stitched from the spare parts of life.
In the cracks between obligations.
In the quiet moments we think don’t count.
In the basement of our days.
Each of us builds a kind of prototype. A body of work, a way of being, a collection of tools and insights no one else could have assembled quite like this. Not consciously, always. But it’s there.
And here’s the wild thing:
To someone else, your creation might feel like a miracle.
Unbelievable.
Exactly what they needed—though they could never have imagined it.
To see a miracle, you must be close to a miracle.
What makes this hard is what the film gets so right:
The armour protects, but it can also numb.
It shields us not just from danger, but from feeling.
From recognising what we’ve built and how brilliant it is.
We stash it away.
Keep it in the shed.
In the basement.
In the back of our minds.
Because to bring it out?
To let it be seen?
That’s terrifying.
Unless—we have support.
The right people.
The right timing.
A bit of courage, and maybe a warrior companion or two.
That’s how the work of the subconscious becomes conscious.
That’s how the “spare parts” become something more.
This is what we’re doing, slowly and steadily:
Making front-room time for back-room work.
Letting our brilliance leave the shadows.
Turning subconscious alchemy into shared creation.
Step by step.
With tenderness and courage.
And maybe even a little help from Wakanda.
One step towards the universe
Where we do exactly this work—together.
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It’s a space where synchronicity and serendipity are regular guests, and your basement brilliance gets a little front-room time.
Bring your scraps, your sparks, your half-formed wonders—
this is where they begin to unfold.
Shall we begin?
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This could be stupid and fun.
Weird, in a weird way of simply show up and do something.
Imagine if you couldn’t get it wrong.
It’s inevitable.
Zero pressure
Dare to bring some stuff into the light with me?
Affirmation for brilliant Women
Your quiet genius is real, even if it was built in the margins.
Many women love to patch together beauty and meaning from the spare parts of their lives—often without even realising how extraordinary it is.
We are conditioned to downplay what we’ve made, wait to be chosen, and stay safely hidden in the basement.
Which undermines our ability to recognise the miracle we already are—and share it with the world.
Remember you can bring your brilliance to light, one small, supported step at a time.
I trust you to know when the moment is right to lift your work gently into view.
Inside One Step Towards the Universe, you’ll find a weekly rhythm of support, synchronicity, and sacred structure—so your quiet creations can begin to shine in full view.
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Drafting notes for spare parts to Ironheart
Made it from spare parts in spare time
It was astonishing
The perfect thing
Armour to protect her tender heart…….
Stops her feeling
Others are more excited about it than she is.
Oh, perhaps my story does go here…
I need to verify through the movie
Great homework
Culture vulture that i am
But my real story is that wishing to be found
I wish i had made something like that
I wish i was a genius
I wish i was patching together something unbelievable from spare parts
That will be unimaginable how it could happen to someone else
And be exactly what they need.
Waiting to be discovered
Protecting self.
Doing what needs to be done in the day to day
Recognising this silly wish in myself.
Don’t be ridiculous
It’s a movie
Not real life
That stuff doesn’t happen in real.
And certainly not to you.
And then i realised that is exactly what i have created,
What all of us in fact create.
Not necessarily in material superhero tech suit form
(in fact probably not)
But each of us, through our lives, in the gaps and spare moments,
Creates some kind of unique collection of parts
That we don;t even feel
Unconsciously. Subconsciously.
There is extraordinary brilliance there
That is longing to be seen and recognised by others.
Because for them it will be wonderful, powerful, extraordinary.
Unbelievalb.e
To see a miracle, must be close to a miracle.
Spare parts prototype
With the right people, the right resources, the right place and time
It can come to light and usefulness.
And be remade again and again > iron heart the series….
And the thing about this, is the unfeeling part.
Shifting it from the shadows, the basement, the back shed…
To the front room laboratory.
Scary stuff.
Except when supported and surrounded by the right people
Step by step.
This is what we do in one step towards the universe.
Make front room time for back room work.
Conscious time for the subconscious…
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